Proverbs 25: 17
or you will wear out your welcome.”
Wasted Welcome
Social etiquette is more than behaving properly; it is the pathway to healthy relationships. Proverbs 25 is filled with advice about how to interact with others in a way that enhances relationship. Nagging wives, lawsuit happy neighbors, and those constantly underfoot soon wear out their welcome.
When we wear out our welcome, we lose the possibility of sharing God’s love with a person. Failing to develop good relationships with others is more than a personal decision; it is a spiritual decision as well. Christians are primarily ambassadors for Christ. Our first and foremost task is to represent Jesus to the world around us. If we alienate those around us with our bad behavior we are doing Christ a disservice.
Good neighborly practices are to be extended even to those who are not nice to us. In this same chapter, we read that being kind to “big meanies” brings conviction. Christians should be the best neighbors around, kind, considerate and not overbearing. By being a good neighbor we will have opportunity to share God’s love with our neighbors. Jesus said loving God and loving our neighbor sum up the law.
Jesus, I want to thank you for moving into our neighborhood and becoming our friend. You treated us lovingly and with grace even when we were rude to you. Help me to model your love and grace with my neighbors today. - Dan Jones
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